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Updated: 8:51 AM Feb 17, 2012
Alimony Could Be Changing in Florida
Permanent alimony would no longer be allowed in Florida under legislation that cleared a key State House Committee Thursday in Tallahassee. The bill makes dozens of changes to the divorce statute and continues to move despite opposition from lawyers and women’s organizations.
Posted: 8:51 AM Feb 17, 2012Florida Alimony Reform');"> |
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Permanent alimony would no longer be allowed in Florida under legislation that cleared a key State House Committee Thursday in Tallahassee. The bill makes dozens of changes to the divorce statute and continues to move despite opposition from lawyers and women’s organizations.
Marriage is supposed to last forever...but sometime after the toast on wedding day, the glass becomes empty for half of all marriages. Once in court, the outcome is never certain. Hector Torres of Miami came to Tallahassee to tell his story. “And I was divorced at the age of 34. My ex wife was 33 at the time of the divorce., and I have to pay her permanent alimony for the rest of my life.
More than a dozen people wearing red filled the seats in the House Judiciary Committee. Rep. Rick Workman is the sponsor of a bill making changes in divorce law. Among the biggest. Unfaithfulness when alimony is awarded.
“Judges often times look at the one receiving the money and make sure that standard of living remains the same as the marriage, where the payor finds himself or herself at a significant reduction in income and standard of living. This bill just says hey, let’s make sure there is a presumption both parties will have a lower standard of living.
Under the bill, that passed, alimony could end at retirement. And it adds three years...from 17 to 20 years of marriage before a judge can consider long term alimony. Barbara Devane of the National Organization for Women is concerned.
“They stay home, they raise the children, and then they get older and the man trades them in for a younger wife, and then they are left out in the cold, and they must be protected.”
Sponsors say the ultimate objective is to get the same outcome in similar cases, something which is often not the case now.
The Florida Bar Family Law Section also expressed doubts about changing the law, but said it was willing to work with the sponsor to make sure the bill is fair to both sides in a divorce.
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I am 100% for the reform of alimony. I have also been paying alimony for life and my income has decreased considerably. I have tried to have it lowered and so far have spent 27,000 dollars to an attorney who only got my alimony raised another $100 a month. Not only is the law outdated, but the attorneys who represent these parasites are also laughing to the bank. I also paid child support during a time my son lived with me after his mother abandoned him. This went on for 3 years and the judge has yet given me my money back. His mother also stole a $22,000 trust fund allocated to my son for college and she spent that as well. Where is the justice?
I was married for 11 years and my "ex" was awarded permanent lifetime / modifiable alimony. Oh yes, she was 45 when I filed for divorce and had been an RN at a major hospital with almost 20 years of experience as a RN. She receives $12,000 (modifiable) a year for the rest of her life based on 11 years of marriage. There is no way she would re-marry and loose this "forever" income. "A woman is the nurturer and the man is the provider ... it has been this way since the caveman times". This is what was told to me by a "family councilor" during my divorce proceedings. However, I have been and still am currently a room parent for my son's class, assisted the teacher in my daughter's kindergarten class teaching science, coach the baseball team, take them to Doctors appointments, campout to purchase front row seats for my daughter's dance recitals, give more time, hugs and kisses to our kids that could ever be counted. The kids are with me 2 out of three days with one overnight and with their Mother 2 out of 3 nights (oh yes … that “Overnight Rule” that gives her even more child support too). I have them more "waking hours" than she does. This means I get to enjoy all of the following 2/3’s of each and every month and would not change it for the world: doing their school projects with them, homework, volunteering at their school, coaching, cooking, packing their lunches for school, sitting in the cafeteria with them and their friends for lunch, walking them up to school, picking them up in car line, providing dinners, teaching, and parenting them. Life time alimony while I support an entirely separate household for the kids’ right down to their socks and hair ties for my daughter? How embarrassing it must be for this State to try and justify this mess. The Family Law Court System in Florida is in broken and in shambles. However, a tremendous "thank you" for those who have listened, noted and acted on the State of Florida's archaic alimony laws!
I'm re-married to a woman I met several years after I divorced my first wife. My new wife was homeless for a short period of time because her ex-husband was a real jerk who took everything for her. The thing is, my new wife was STILL ABLE to stand on her own two feet, get a job, and support herself... even after being knocked down by him. I think any woman can recover after a period of time, and TEMPORARY alimony can help. NOT PERMANENT.










